


”The ambivalence exposed so vividly by sexual jealousy – that where we love we always hate, and vice versa – has something important to tell us about the complexity of our emotional lives. I such extremes, apparently opposed feelings are always present – why else would we hate if love wasn’t somewhere involved? You can be frustrated only by someone you need – then we need to be attentive when these strong feelings seem to be mutually exclusive, when love takes over so you can’t find the hate, and vice versa.”